Cruel Intentions?
by HeadCase on Oct.17, 2009, under Random
Sometimes in life, we have to be cruel to be kind. Its always easier being the nice guy, as oposed to being the bad guy. Being the bad guy, for the sake of someone is not easy, since they tend to hate you after and you will have to hide your own pain.
I feel it is more painful and cruel to give a false sense of hope, it is the cowardly way out of life. In my experience, its better to severe ties before the bonds form roots into the heart of someone. It may be painful to cut ties before arteries are connected to the heart… Connections, society and relationships are what makes us human, but make no mistake. It can kill who you are as well. And we know, what does not kill us can only make us stronger, wisely put by Friedich Nietzche, its best then to survive the operation of severance, so that we are able to form new attachments. For every end, there should be a new beginning. At least I’d like to think so…
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October 18th, 2009 on 10:17 pm
well well.. quite true wat ya saying there.. i hope the same too ‘every ending will hav another new beginning’ so hurtful to be dumped.. 6yrs bond sure hav rooted deeply in my heart to pull off.. there is hope, there is a reason to keep on striving.. always been ur’s reader even from friendster.. u should write more like u promised.. take care
October 20th, 2009 on 8:44 pm
You have been dumped? . . . joke!
Anyway, for people who has been given false hope it may be because they “assume” instead of asking. Someone says, people who assume make themselves look like an ass.
Assume= Ass U Me
However, for people who do/say things but mean otherwise, it’s definitely giving false hope and it’s indeed cowardly.
Maybe it’s the fear of being alone or left behind that they hold a person even if they don’t mean to keep them or maybe they’re were a weakling who don’t have the courage to say “no” or maybe they’re just simply selfish and never cares about others.
Just maybe . . .
October 22nd, 2009 on 5:40 pm
Casey.. Severe ties seems so ruthless, so unforgiving.. I’m a coward and I don’t know if I’ll ever be strong enough to form new attachments. I think I’m broken up.. withdrawing into hibernation..
November 2nd, 2009 on 7:14 pm
Lyne, it seems ruthless and unforgiving on the surface but is true compassion and selflessness in the long run… hence, we have to be cruel to be kind sometimes. I could be wrong, but it seems to make sense to me.